What is dogging?
Public sex, usually
outdoors, that sometimes involves the voyeurs joining in.
Though dogging started in the UK, it is spreading very quickly
across the world.
Dogging FAQ
What is dogging?
The term dogging refers
to either having or observing exhibitionist sex in a public
or semi-public place, usually outdoors. Sometimes the voyeurs
join in on the sex, usually they just watch from nearby.
Why is it called
dogging?
There are several possible
explanations: "dogging" can mean following or
watching, or it might refer to having sex outdoors like
dogs. A popular theory is that it comes from the alibi of
"walking the dog" to explain your outdoor adventures.
See our page on the origins of the term "dogging"
for more.
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How did dogging
start?
Dogging has been getting
a lot of attention lately, but people have been doing it
for many years. Recently, with the advent of the internet,
cell phones, and messaging, it is easier for doggers to
find one another and arrange meetings.
Is dogging like
swinging?
Many people who are
into dogging are also involved in the swinging scene (wife-swapping,
group sex, etc.). Some couples just like to put on a show
to spice things up now and then.
Why is dogging so
popular?
It's fun and it's forbidden.
People love to watch and be watched during sex. There's
also an element of challenge and adventure to finding a
good dogging spot and seeking out an exciting encounter.
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What kind of people
go dogging?
Couples into exhibitionism
are usually in their 30s to 50s, though some may be older
or younger. Observers are usually single men. Most doggers
are middle class, and most lead quite average lives apart
from their "hobby".
Where are the best
places for dogging?
Doggers mostly choose
open air, somewhat out of the way places, often in or near
country parks. Car parks are also quite common congregating
spots, and occasionally cinema halls. Check our links section
for web sites with lists of known dogging locations.
How widespread is
dogging?
Public sex happens
nearly everywhere, but the dogging phenomenon has really
flourished in the United Kingdom, for some reason. There
are signs it is spreading rapidly to Canada, New Zealand,
Canada and the U.S.
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I want to try dogging.
How do I get started?
Coming to this site
is a good start. Check out some of the other dogging sites
on the Web. Drop in on some dogging forums or join online
dogging groups and get a feel for the scene. Read our dogging
etiquette tips for dogging dos and don'ts.
How do doggers hook
up for meetings?
Nowadays, doggers usually
contact one another online, through chat rooms, forums,
bulletin boards and newsgroups. Someone will issue an invite
to watch, or inquire if there is anyone interested in performing
in a certain area. Further details for meeting may be arranged
online, or via cell phone or messaging. Some may just show
up at a known dogging spot and see if anyone else turns
up.
Is dogging illegal?
Dogging somewhat of
a legal grey area, and the laws regarding public sex, nudity,
lewdness, and their enforcement, vary by jurisdiction. In
the UK, there are laws against public sex but they mostly
are concerned with protecting "unwilling witnesses"
from seeing acts of lewdness. We're not sure how this would
be applied to sex in front of willing witnesses. However,
if there is a complaint, you may be prosecuted. And in some
areas the local police have been stepping up patrols to
discourage activity at notorious dogging hangouts.
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Is doggin dangerous?
There are a number of
risks involved in dogging. Anytime you're dealing with people
you meet online, going to a secluded spot, and putting yourself
in a compromising position, you are making yourself somewhat
vulnerable. Usually everyone is just looking for a good
time, but crimes can happen, so always be cautious and be
aware of your surroundings.
Another risk of dogging
now becoming evident is that of contracting sexually transmitted
diseases. Be safe when playing with strangers. Use condoms,
gloves, and appropriate contraception.
How do I talk my
partner into trying dogging?
Obviously dogging is
a consensual activity, but it's not going to be everyone's
cup of tea. Try broaching the subject of dogging and see
how he or she responds to the idea. If they seem receptive,
talk about how a dogging scenario could play out and see
if they get turned on. If you decide to go for it, make
the arrangements together. Don't take them out "for
a drive" and spring it on them. Never trick or coerce
someone into a scene.
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I tried going to
a dogging spot and nothing was going on there. What happened?
If you just showed
up at a reported dogging area, maybe you just hit a quiet
spell. Sometimes you have to hang out and give it some time.
Also, spots may change in popularity, and if there are problems
at one, people may move on.
I went to a dogging
spot and it was closed off. Why?
If you went to a nature
area or car park and found it fenced off, it's likely a
response to too much dogging activity in that area, causing
complaints about noise, traffic, trash and general naughtiness.
More businesses and government agencies are becoming aware
of dogging and are beginning to take action to discourage
it. However, the doggers find a new spot and get back to
business.
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